The innocent indian e-dater

I have always wondered why the average Indian man is SO horny. Each dating site, each social networking site or any other social site is filled with these horny Indian males.
Apparently they are the reason 'vilayat' girls specifically mention how they want any horny Indian man to stay away from their profile.
recently, i was talking to my Spanish friend, she mentioned how a 40 year old married man from India kept asking her for sex on one of these sites. For god's sake she is 18.
So why can't Indian men keep it in their pants? Is it because they have kept it in their pants for far too long due to the social constraints in the country? is it because sex out of marriage is considered to be wrong in the culture, and most of these men have become frustrated? But that should be happening to women too. So why is it only these embarrassing Indian males appear on these sites. The problem is that every lady , whether indian or not,  generalise the 'tharki indian male' tag. Some of the men get turned down on these sites just because they are Indian.
It is not the girls fault, neither can you blame the innocent man who just wants to talk for being called an 'eternal tharki'.
So how do we save our reducing 'nice guy' population from this problem? Feel free to help yourself. 

Nakaab, competition, jugaad.

I am new to this. I think i should jump straight in. Recently I got rid of my CA classes and the first thought that came to my mind was to go underground. I needed to get away from all. So i switched off FB, phone and other networks.

The sole reason being the annoying nature of the students there. 'bhai, tu pass ho gaya?' 'bhai, kitna kar liya? Tu toh brilliant hai nikal jayega. ' ' maine kuch nahi kiya, bhai', 'tere father CA hain tujhe kya tension'.

The problem is not the question, the problem is the concern is most certainly not genuine. The roots to such annoying behaviour is seed of COMPETITION embedded in Indian students. My own mother wanted me to give some competitive exam just because her friend's daughter was giving it.

I, too, was a victim of such competition until recently. I changed my objective from just clearing the exam to actually garnering some knowledge. I want to become an entrepreneur, which is in no way connected to what my father does. So I realised I need to pick myself up if i want to achieve what I want. I can't just give in to the 'jugaad' culture and become a white collar just because my father knows too many people there..

The end. Wow, this feels good. I know the ending was abrupt. I am not such a good writer. I used to get 7's on my letter writing. But, bear with me? :)